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Monday, 31 May 2010

Biography of a Wife harassed by the "Other Woman": Chapter 16. Great Expectations

Biography of a Wife harassed by the "Other Woman": Chapter 16. Great Expectations

Main Characters:
1. Pranati Devi -The Legally Wedded Wife or Narrator
2. Gayatri Devi alias Mata Hari - The OTHER WOMAN luring the Husband in an existing marriage
3. Aditya Kumar-The Husband
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Date of writing: 31/05/2010
Date of Editing: 01/06/2010

Great Expectations
Even after all this, I am not interested in harming either Aditya or his parents. I am not so sure about Gayatri Devi, though with time I might just let her be provided she does not cross my path ever again and stays out of my vicinity.
Every relationship has some good and some bad moments. I and Ramesh shared some great moment with Adity and we are grateful to Aditya for the same. Ramesh still loves and cares for Aditya, though he does not miss him any more. Time heals all.

Though Aditya has chated me and in later period harassed and threatened me, I can still look back at all the good things we shared and smile. I had also promised Aditya’s mother that come what may I would never involve her and Aditya’s father in my battle for justice and so far I have kept my word.
Am I a very good person? Yes. Magnanimous? May be not.

What has hurt me in the whole episode is the way Aditya and Gayatri Devi handled the entire issue with no trace of sensitivity on part of either of them. All Aditya had to do was to tell me the truth and he would have got what he wanted. I kept telling him not to end the relationship on a bitter note. I would still want to be able to shake hands and make a small talk if at all I run into Aditya in future.

Aditya has other thoughts, prodded and encouraged by insecure Gayatri Devi, who feared that Aditya after knowing her well, might regret being with her and return to me, wanted Aditya to make a clean break and not even talk to Ramesh.
End result? Two years down the line, status quo remains. I am still Aditya’s legally wedded wife.
I have been explicit with my expectations to Aditya. All I wanted was a little time and of course the truth. I don’t know why Aditya did not understand this. May be fear of having wronged me?

What did I want from Aditya and why?

1. Both I and Ramesh needed time to accept the fact that Aditya would like to move on

2. Ramesh being sensitive child, I was worried may withdraw into a shell

3. I was afraid of loneliness
Aditya left on 19th May 2008, I last met him on 25th July, 2009, when I stayed at his place.

This was when I was going through a very confusing phase and a lot of my friends suggested that I do Landmark Forum, which I did in Feb, 2009. Slowly but surely all the doubts in my mind cleared. I had my priorities right. I realized that for the next few months my focus had to be completely on Ramesh and his studies.
This was the time I came across Biblio-therapy and I decided to start writing this blog and started digging information on Aditya and Gayatri Devi, and their past. I was shocked when I realized that Aditya and Gaytri Devi had played such a dirty game with me, I decided that come what may, I would expose these cads, even if I have to stoop to their level, however, without compromising on my values. That is when I also decided that I will never go back to Aditya nor would I let him be unless he admitted the truth.
Even God helps good people. That’s why I got to know Aditya’s true colors and was able to get a lot of information on Gayatri Devi to post them on this blog. I hope Aditya realizes that he cannot get away with cheating a person.


Today I am independent, strong and free to do anything I please. I have overcome my fear of loneliness and Ramesh has grown up to be very independent child who no more needs a father figure in his life. I am not interested in a burden called Aditya. But I have to fight for the truth and justice and I shall. After all I have nothing to lose but everything to gain.

I hope at-least now Aditya realizes his folly and takes the corrective step. He turned 34 last Monday and this is the time he needs to forget the long winding legal battles and settle for peaceful life.

As for me, I am now clear of my goals and confident that I can achieve them. People like Aditya and Gayatri Devi have to be made to realize that others are human beings and have feelings and you cannot trample them.
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Voice of Women is pleased to present the BIOGRAPHY OF A WIFE (WHO IS BEING HARASSED BY A YOUNGER WOMAN COMPETING FOR THE ATTENTION OF HER HUSBAND).

Inspired by the success of the 'Chronicles of a Battered Abused Discriminated and Disadvantaged Fatherless Girl-child'----another woman has come forward with her "Testimony of a wife in an existing marriage", who is being harassed by a Young Unattached Woman who is wooing for the attention of her HUSBAND and luring him.

This TESTIMONY brings to LIGHT the Strenuous circumstances of LEGALLY WEDDED OLDER WOMEN, who are facing competition from 'Sexually empowered young women'. These 'OTHER WOMEN' are younger, divorced or free, and compete to STEAL HUSBANDS FROM EXISTING MARRIAGES, by hook or by crook (and other carnal means----by Lure, beauty and looks!). And, then proceed to Sham conversions to Islam, Sham marriages, adultery, and other Social crimes ---if unchecked.

The core issue of the Biography is to look for Solutions for "The Other Women" in our Homes, Community, Society and the Corporate World. The solutions include Counseling, Healing, Family Forums and other Alternative Counseling Forums.
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Disclaimer: The Story is told in the first person narrative by the " Legally Wedded Wife".

For reasons of confidentiality, please don't assume the identity of the 'narrator'. The entire story has been placed in custody of certain well-wishers. Names and identities of characters have been masked and changed to protect their identities. Let us call the name of the WIFE as 'Pranati Devi'.

Images used are only representative of the story.

Strong Legal action will be taken in Bangalore jurisdiction, against all those who claim to resemble or know the identity of any characters mentioned in this Biography.

Events are true and character sketches are disguised to protect their identities.

Copyright © 2010 Roshni Pereira and "Pranati Devi, The Legally Wedded Wife"

Biography of a Wife deceived by a 'Husband' into a Bigamous marriage(s): Chapter 13. Not a True Widow, says Balaji about Wife No.2


Biography of a Wife deceived by a 'Husband' into a Bigamous marriage(s): Chapter 13. Not a True Widow, says Balaji about Wife No.2


Main Characters:
1. Meera -The Legally Wedded Wife or Narrator in USA (Married by Civil Registered Marriage)
2. Veena - Yet another wife in India and Young widow (Married by Hindu Religious rites)
3. Balaji aka Krishna -The Bigamous Husband in USA (The Charming Con-Artist)
4. Roshan - Veena's Fatherless orphan from previous marriage with Madan
5. Madan -First husband of Veena, who died an unnatural death with unfinished business
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Date of Writing: 23 May 2010
Date of Editing: 23 May 2010
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Balaji snorted at Veena and claimed that she was not a True Widow.
Why would he make such a statement?

Because she re-married him?

Because she paid dowry of Rs 5 Lakhs from her late Husband's estate?

A widow loses her widowhood, when she marries, said Balaji.

A widow gets the blessings of a marriage on her re-marriage; and loses the curse of a widow.



References: Who is a Widow?
1 Timothy 5

Advice About Widows

3Give proper recognition to those widows who are really in need. 4But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God. 5The widow who is really in need and left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help. 6But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she lives. 7Give the people these instructions, too, so that no one may be open to blame. 8If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

9No widow may be put on the list of widows unless she is over sixty, has been faithful to her husband,[a] 10and is well known for her good deeds, such as bringing up children, showing hospitality, washing the feet of the saints, helping those in trouble and devoting herself to all kinds of good deeds.

11As for younger widows, do not put them on such a list. For when their sensual desires overcome their dedication to Christ, they want to marry. 12Thus they bring judgment on themselves, because they have broken their first pledge. 13Besides, they get into the habit of being idle and going about from house to house. And not only do they become idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying things they ought not to.

14So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.

15Some have in fact already turned away to follow Satan.

Friday, 28 May 2010

Biography of a Wife deceived by a 'Husband' into a Bigamous marriage(s): Chapter 12. Bigamous Marriage for Mortgage


Biography of a Wife deceived by a 'Husband' into a Bigamous marriage(s): Chapter 12. Bigamous Marriage for Mortgage.


Main Characters:
1. Meera -The Legally Wedded Wife or Narrator in USA (Married by Civil Registered Marriage)
2. Veena - Yet another wife in India and Young widow (Married by Hindu Religious rites)
3. Balaji aka Krishna -The Bigamous Husband in USA (The Charming Con-Artist)
4. Roshan - Veena's Fatherless orphan from previous marriage with Madan
5. Madan -First husband of Veena, who died an unnatural death with unfinished business
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Date of Writing: 23 May 2010
Date of Editing: 23 May 2010
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First comes Love and then comes Mortgage. NO ...NO... NO...

Bigamous Marriage for Mortgage and love is out of question....

What is the rationale for demanding one commitment without the other?
Bigamous wedding day was a Happy day for Balaji! Dreams of mortgage payment from legal wife, college fees of two kids, paying off each credit card and the line of credit felt fantastic. You would think that this would have caused some sort of epiphany, where couple would no longer spend more than they made, to take full advantage of this free pass. After all, how many people have the chance to completely wipe out their debt in one day?
Balaji purchased a luxurious house though he could not afford. Mortgage, utilities ramped up the credit card bills quickly. He plotted bigamous Marriage for Mortgage (house loan) in few months. Meera realized his plot as she could not see a single drop of love in marriage despite ofdepositing her full salary from high paid job for years. At one point Meera got a courage, ignored Dr. Balaji's frequent threats and decided to stop payments. Result: House listed for foreclosure.

Balaji started torturing Meera at home by false allegations. Several plots made to kick her out of the house but all failed and reverted on him. Meera never requested US court to throw him out of the house despite of her sufferings at home.

Verdict reverted and US judge ordered Balaji to vacate marital residence by 9.00 PM on Saturday. No further extension will be granted. Balaji was requesting judge frequently for an extension to live in the house. Shame on asking for extension in court four times to live with Meera in the same house. Was this the same person who requested court emergency protection order against Meera to stay minimum 500 feet away from him and his kids?


Finally Balaji with his tennis American friends (Sorry, No desi friends) ransacked the house and vacated per Judge order on Saturday. Filthy Balaji left the rooms trashy and preferred not to clean as clock was ticking fast. Finally it was 9.00 PM and criminal is on the road now.....

Thursday, 27 May 2010

NRI father Ravichandran gets child Aditya's custody

NRI father Ravichandran gets child Aditya's custody
May 27, 2010


NEW DELHI: A two-year-long custody battle between an estranged NRI couple has ended with the father wrestling control of the boy and taking him to the US after the CBI tracked down the mother and the child to an art school in Chennai, the CBI informed the Supreme Court on Wednesday.

With this development, a vacation Bench comprising Justices B S Chauhan and Swatanter Kumar ordered closure of the proceedings initiated by V Ravichandran, who had accused his estranged wife Vijayshree Voora of kidnapping seven-year-old Aditya from the US and bringing him to India in breach of US court orders.

Aditya was traced on May 1 to the Global Art India in Chennai and was handed over to the father, said senior advocate
Pinky Anand who appeared for Ravichandran.

On November 17 last year, the apex court had directed the mother to go back to US, submit herself to the local court's jurisdiction and, if she wanted, initiate proceedings for alteration in the orders granting joint custody of the child.

What went against the mother was the manner in which she changed her place of stay frequently to avoid detection by the police after the Supreme Court issued notice to the states on a habeas corpus petition by the father.


Refer earlier blog-posting:
http://voiceofwomenindia.blogspot.com/2009/10/breaking-news-child-abductee-aditya.html

Tuesday, 25 May 2010

'Rathore failed in his duty by molesting minor girl': Jailed for 18 months


'Rathore failed in his duty by molesting minor girl'
May 26, 2010

CHANDIGARH: The faith of the public in judiciary would have eroded if S P S Rathore was not awarded the sentence of one-and-a-half years, felt additional district and sessions judge Gurbir Singh, who on Tuesday enhanced the sentence of the former Haryana DGP. The purpose of law is met, he said.

Terming it a legal battle between two unequals, the judge observed that there is no dispute that Ruchika committed suicide and a precious life was lost. "As police officer, his role was to protect the public. As president of Haryana Lawn Tennis Association, his role was to train budding players for India. But he failed in both duties by molesting a minor girl. People are afraid to send minor girls to playgrounds due to presence of such persons in the sports field," said the judge.

"As long as such persons are at the helm of affairs of sports associations, the presence of women in sports cannot be increased and real talent cannot be brought forward to represent the country," said the judge. While Rathore has been complaining to the court about trial by media, the court ruled: "Till today, media cannot influence decision-making process. Indian courts and Indian judicial system are very strong."

The judge observed that although Rathore deserved maximum punishment of two years prescribed for offence under Section 354 IPC, he was handed out just one-and-a-half years keeping in view his age, his medical background, a dependent unmarried daughter who is suffering from congenital heart problem, his meritorious service record and the fact that he spent more than 200 dates in the court during the trial.

Thursday, 20 May 2010

Biography of a Wife deceived by a 'Husband' into a Bigamous marriage(s): Chapter 11. Sleepless in Seattle: Praying to Incubus spirits

Biography of a Wife deceived by a 'Husband' into a Bigamous marriage(s): Chapter 11. Sleepless in Seattle: Praying to Incubus spirits

Main Characters:
1. Meera -The Legally Wedded Wife or Narrator in USA (Married by Civil Registered Marriage)
2. Veena - Yet another wife in India and Young widow (Married by Hindu Religious rites)
3. Balaji aka Krishna -The Bigamous Husband in USA (The Charming Con-Artist)
4. Roshan - Veena's Fatherless orphan from previous marriage with Madan
5. Madan -First husband of Veena, who died an unnatural death with unfinished business
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Date of Writing: 17 May 2010
Date of Editing: 17 May 2010
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The widowed Veena pined for the unholy alliance with Balaji. After Balaji abandoned her, she had nightmares of her late husband Madan.

She poured milk on the Incubus form to pray for relations with her new worldly 'husband' Balaji.

She proudly told her son Roshan about her dreams of her ex-husband, and her nightly experiences with a ghost.

Was the ghost an incubus spirit? Were the rumours spread by Balaji true?

References:
An incubus (from the Latin, incubo, or nightmare; plural incubi) is a demon in male form supposed to lie upon sleepers, especially women, in order to have sexual intercourse with them, according to a number of mythological and legendary traditions. Its female counterpart is the succubus.

The idea of the incubus attack is based in the medieval lore of the nocturnal demonic visitation. In one version of this lore, the demon is able to take on both male and female human shape and potentially impregnate a woman, causing her to give birth to a demonic child. The demon would initially take on the form of a female, known as a succubus, which would mate with an unsuspecting male victim. Capturing his "seed" the demon could then take on the male form, known as the incubus. The incubus would then mate with a female victim who could be impregnated with "demon seed." This frightening explanation for these nocturnal experiences is still embraced by some today, and many people who have had this experience find the demonic explanation convincing, at least initially, because the experience is so intense and apparently real.

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Voice of Women is pleased to present the BIOGRAPHY OF A WIFE DECEIVED INTO MARRIAGE BY HER 'HUSBAND' AFTER CONCEALING AN EXISTING MARRIAGE.

Inspired by the success of the 'Chronicles of a Battered Abused Discriminated and Disadvantaged Fatherless Girl-child'----A WIFE has come forward with her "Testimony of a Legally wedded wife to a man who has concealed an existing marriage".
This TESTIMONY brings to LIGHT the Strenuous circumstances of LEGALLY WEDDED EDUCATED WOMEN, who are facing deception from 'CHARMING MEN'.

The core issue of the Biography is to look for Solutions for "Deception and Concealment of existing marriages by MEN" in our Homes, Community, Society and the Corporate World. The solutions include Counseling, Healing, Family Forums and other Alternative Counseling Forums.
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Disclaimer: The Story is told in the first person narrative by the "Legally Wedded Wife".
For reasons of confidentiality, please don't assume the identity of the 'other characters in the story- namely the Bigamous husband'. The entire story has been placed in custody of certain well-wishers. Names and identities of characters have been masked and changed to protect their identities. Let us call the name of the LEGALLY WEDDED WIFE as 'Meera'.

Images used are only representative of the story.

Strong Legal action will be taken in Bangalore jurisdiction, against all those who claim to resemble or know the identity of any characters mentioned in this Biography.

Biography of a Wife harassed by the "Other Woman": Chapter 15. Revelations (Sex, Lies and Videotape)

Biography of a Wife harassed by the "Other Woman": Chapter 15. Revelations (Sex, Lies and Videotape)

I mentioned in the last chapter that the last six months have been the best months of my life. There have been lots of revelations, lots of myths busted. It feels as though life has taken an 1800 turn. I have just begun the best phase of my life.

A few days back I was watching a re-telecast of “Kofee with Karan” where Amitabh and Abhishek Bachchan were guests. Amitab made a statement “Agar man ka ho toh achcha, agar man ka na ho toh aur bi achcha, kyo ki usme kuda ki marji shamil hai” (If you get what you want good, if you don’t get what you want still better, as the latter involves God’s will’. I could not agree more.
Today when I look back at my life with Aditya, I feel whatever happened, happened for good.
One of the reasons I married I Aditya was to provide Ramesh a complete family. Aditya was really good with Ramesh. In fact till Ms. Gayatri Devi’s entry into Aditya’s life, he and Ramesh got on like a house on fire. Glimpses of this were evident even in post Gayatri Devi phase, when Ramesh and Aditya cooked together, went shopping, played videogames or simple lazed around watching movies. I still remember on 31st Dec, 2007, I was working. Aditya and Ramesh cooked a wonderful dinner and were waiting for me with cake and flowers to bring in the New Year. When you see these two together they are perfectly coordinated and complement each other very well.

Secondly I liked Adity very much and found him to be a good person. The only thing that bothered me was our age difference. When I expressed my apprehension, Aditya assured me that it really does not matter to him. That is one of the reason’s I overlooked our differences.

Adity was fairly immature for his age even then. He is more focused on material possession and things that provide physical gratification. I was sympathetic towards this and did not find if out of place as Aditya has grown up in a single room tenement in Majestic area, he longing for luxury and good things seemed natural.

Aditya is not very academically inclined or well read person. However he is very argumentative and stubborn person, he will argue just to prove a point even though he is totally wrong. He does not take the trouble to find the facts. (This is one of the reason’s he is being taken for a royal ride by his lawyer and is making mistake after mistake, instead of telling the truth and being done with it).

Aditya’s greatest weakness is anything in skirts, I mean women. Even Ramesh and my niece had noticed that the moment a women was in Aditya’s vicinity; his volume went up, the tone changed and his gestures changed. He would start talking in a Yankee accent and show off.

I took all this in my stride as Aditya was good to Ramesh and I believed him to be good human being who would mature with age, only it did not happen. After Gayatri Devi’s entry it became worst and he even started ill treating Ramesh.

When I had asked Aditya about the “I miss you” sms from Gayatri Devi, he had brushed aside the issue with “I don’t know”.

When he was found talking to Gayatri Devi in the parked car, while out dining with me and Ramesh, he had brushed that aside saying that it was his boss Mukesh.

There was an incident that I had completely overlooked. When I was in Mumbai, my sister would generally go in once in two days and clean my house, ones she found empty condom covers under Aditya’s bed. She mentioned this to me. When I asked aditya, about is he pounced on me blaming my sister for miss using our house. I wonder what would have happened if Ramesh was older, probable Aditya would have got another person to blame.

Another occasion I can recall here is when Aditya was missing for half the night with no response to calls and no trace either in office, his parent’s house, or even with friends and ditto Ms. Gayatri Devi.

After being caught in Gayatri Devi’s house red handed by me on 11th August 2008, Aditya gave many lame excuses for the same. Though I was not convinced of any of them I gave Aditya the benefit of doubt, which he never deserved.
When I reflect back on all these incidents I wonder what made me trust Aditya? Was I so blind? Or dumb?

The story about Gayatri Devi rejecting Aditya’s proposal was told by Adity to me, the story of Gayatri Devi’s engagement was told to me by Mithun. Gayatri Devi herself has sworn in front of me that she has nothing to do with Aditya and also give in writing at Kodigehalli Police station that she will never contact Aditya again.

It is almost 18 months since Aditya’s proposal was rejected, its almost over a year since Minthun claimed to have got engaged to Gayatri Devi, then why are they still not married?

I have now found out the fact that the lovers Aditya and Gayatri had fooled me for nearly two and half years before I could find out about their illicit sexual affair. May be they are still fooling me and may be Mithun is only a decoy to mislead me.

Here again I am not sure why this is being done, as two years back itself I had told Aditya that I was willing to divorce him on mutual consent if he told me the truth about him and Gayatri Devi. I even promised to help him marry the woman he really loved. Only once he admitted that he loved her and wanted to have children with her, and then went into denial mode. Even Gayatri Devi denied having an affair with Aditya. May be they both lack courage or may be they both know in their hearts that they have cheated and wronged me.

If I hand not taken a stand and thrown Adity out of the house exactly on this day, 19th May two years back, then the lovers would still be fooling me. I would have still been slogging like an ass to provide Aditya with all the luxuries that he so very much loves. That’s the reason I mention the quote by Mr. Bachchan.

I am of the opinion that love is a very strong and wonderful feeling. It gives you courage to go against all odds to be with each other. It makes people magnanimous and nice. Then how come these two became such lousy people. Which keeps me wondering id they really love each other or is it just plain lust and sexual pleasure that they are seeking from each other.
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Voice of Women is pleased to present the BIOGRAPHY OF A WIFE (WHO IS BEING HARASSED BY A YOUNGER WOMAN COMPETING FOR THE ATTENTION OF HER HUSBAND).

Inspired by the success of the 'Chronicles of a Battered Abused Discriminated and Disadvantaged Fatherless Girl-child'----another woman has come forward with her "Testimony of a wife in an existing marriage", who is being harassed by a Young Unattached Woman who is wooing for the attention of her HUSBAND and luring him.

This TESTIMONY brings to LIGHT the Strenuous circumstances of LEGALLY WEDDED OLDER WOMEN, who are facing competition from 'Sexually empowered young women'. These 'OTHER WOMEN' are younger, divorced or free, and compete to STEAL HUSBANDS FROM EXISTING MARRIAGES, by hook or by crook (and other carnal means----by Lure, beauty and looks!). And, then proceed to Sham conversions to Islam, Sham marriages, adultery, and other Social crimes ---if unchecked.

The core issue of the Biography is to look for Solutions for "The Other Women" in our Homes, Community, Society and the Corporate World. The solutions include Counseling, Healing, Family Forums and other Alternative Counseling Forums.
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Disclaimer: The Story is told in the first person narrative by the " Legally Wedded Wife".

For reasons of confidentiality, please don't assume the identity of the 'narrator'. The entire story has been placed in custody of certain well-wishers. Names and identities of characters have been masked and changed to protect their identities. Let us call the name of the WIFE as 'Pranati Devi'.

Images used are only representative of the story.

Strong Legal action will be taken in Bangalore jurisdiction, against all those who claim to resemble or know the identity of any characters mentioned in this Biography.

Events are true and character sketches are disguised to protect their identities.

Copyright © 2010 Roshni Pereira and "Pranati Devi, The Legally Wedded Wife"

Sunday, 16 May 2010

Biography of a Wife harassed by the "Other Woman": Chapter 14. Love, Sex and Dhoka (LSD)


Biography of a Wife harassed by the "Other Woman": Chapter 14. Love, Sex and Dhoka (LSD)

Main Characters:
1. Pranati Devi -The Legally Wedded Wife or Narrator
2. Gayatri Devi alias Mata Hari - The OTHER WOMAN luring the Husband in an existing marriage
3. Aditya Kumar-The Husband
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Date of writing: 17/05/2010
Date of Editing: 17/05/2010

Love, Sex and Dhoka
Life is wonderful when you find happiness in being honest and enjoying your responsibilities and duties, when you can priorities and take time off to be with your children in their crucial times.


I have been dormant the last few months as I chose to be with Ramesh, in his preparation for board and also during the exams. Boy! Have these months been a revelation? You bet! They have been the best months in my life.
I spent a lot of time in introspection…. More about that in the later chapters lets now get on with the love birds and I don’t mean Gayatri Devi and Mithun, but Gayatri Devi and Aditya.

I got plenty of time for gathering fresh information on the love birds and the male ‘who’ in their life. A lot of it was a shocker.

Remember I told how Aditya volunteered to take care of Ramesh and my eyes well up with tears. Looks like I wasted them, it actually was for their convenience and the freedom to carry on their affair without any hindrance that Aditya wanted at continue staying at my rented apartment on Sarjapur road.
At that time our Mata Hari Ms. Gayatri Devi was living on Marathalli Road, in fact the she was residing at G/398, H A L Old TNSH, 4A, Vimanapura, Bangalore. Both Gaytri Devi and Aditya were still working with Axe Technologies at BTM layout. My apartment on Sarjapur road proved to be very convenient meeting place for the lovers.

Ramesh left for school at 8 am and after that the lovers had plenty of time for their sexcapades as they had to reach office only by 12.00 noon.

I have to admit here that one of the revelations I had was how wrong I had been all along to think that Aditya was innocent and was lured by Gayatri Devi. The fact was that Aditya was a willing partner in this and their affair started the moment Gayatri Devi returned from US. Aditya successfully hid the whole affair from be for two and a half years. When I accidentally read Gayatri Devi’s “I miss you” SMS to Aditya, their affair had already peaked, which was he prime reason for Aditya supporting my move to Mumbai. He also volunteered to take care of Ramesh till his summer break only to alleviate my apprehension about Ramesh’s schooling which could be a great deterrent to my relocation to Mumbai. In fact continuing to stay at my place was very advantageous to Aditya as he could carry on his affair with Gayatri Devi without much hindrance.
Looking bacj I feel what a fool I have been to blindly trust Aditya, however I am not still clear about Aditya’s intention behind begging me to return to Bangalore within 4 months of my relocating to Mumbai.

The the real store goes some what like this, Ms. Gayatri Devi, high on libido, and now loaded with alimony, returns from US, connect with Mary’s lamb Aditya, gives cock and bull story about being treated badly by husband and in-laws, gains Aditya’s sympathy, gets a job in his company on his recommendation and then Seduces him.

I read an article, A Woman's Touch Can Lead to … Risky Behavior?

(http://www.tonic.com/article/a-womans-touch-can-lead-torisky-behavior/) our man was touched by none other The Mata Hari herself and was bound to get carried away.

Our hero Aditya, who is obsessed with sexual gratification, was more than willing to be seduced and reduced to a fool by an unsatisfied woman. So, Aditya and Gayatri Devi became love birds, hanging together at all times in office and even after ours not missing a single opportunity to copulate.

The only bone of contention in their life was me, Pranati, Aditya’s legally wedded wife. In this scenario, my relocation to Mumbai was God sent opportunity to the lovers.

Lo and behold! The picture is complete and a blissful future aw2aiting the love birds.
Now comes, my big question, when the picture was perfect, why did Aditya call me back to Bangalore? What went wrong? Was the light (read attraction) insufficient for the film to develop into a perfect picture or was the covalent bond (read sexual bond between the lovers) of silver bromide weak?
I have no answers for this. All I can say is that Aditya wagered a loving home for sex with Mata Hari and gave me dhoka ................................................................................................. ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………. ………………………………This is Love Sex and Dhaka (LSD)
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Voice of Women is pleased to present the BIOGRAPHY OF A WIFE (WHO IS BEING HARASSED BY A YOUNGER WOMAN COMPETING FOR THE ATTENTION OF HER HUSBAND).

Inspired by the success of the 'Chronicles of a Battered Abused Discriminated and Disadvantaged Fatherless Girl-child'----another woman has come forward with her "Testimony of a wife in an existing marriage", who is being harassed by a Young Unattached Woman who is wooing for the attention of her HUSBAND and luring him.

This TESTIMONY brings to LIGHT the Strenuous circumstances of LEGALLY WEDDED OLDER WOMEN, who are facing competition from 'Sexually empowered young women'. These 'OTHER WOMEN' are younger, divorced or free, and compete to STEAL HUSBANDS FROM EXISTING MARRIAGES, by hook or by crook (and other carnal means----by Lure, beauty and looks!). And, then proceed to Sham conversions to Islam, Sham marriages, adultery, and other Social crimes ---if unchecked.

The core issue of the Biography is to look for Solutions for "The Other Women" in our Homes, Community, Society and the Corporate World. The solutions include Counseling, Healing, Family Forums and other Alternative Counseling Forums.
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Disclaimer: The Story is told in the first person narrative by the " Legally Wedded Wife".

For reasons of confidentiality, please don't assume the identity of the 'narrator'. The entire story has been placed in custody of certain well-wishers. Names and identities of characters have been masked and changed to protect their identities. Let us call the name of the WIFE as 'Pranati Devi'.

Images used are only representative of the story.

Strong Legal action will be taken in Bangalore jurisdiction, against all those who claim to resemble or know the identity of any characters mentioned in this Biography.

Events are true and character sketches are disguised to protect their identities.

Copyright © 2010 Roshni Pereira and "Pranati Devi, The Legally Wedded Wife"

Biography of a Wife deceived by a 'Husband' into a Bigamous marriage(s): Chapter 10. Shattering Unnatural Soul-ties with abandoned Widow Bride

Biography of a Wife deceived by a 'Husband' into a Bigamous marriage(s): Chapter 10. Shattering Unnatural Soul-ties with abandoned Widow Bride

Main Characters:
1. Meera -The Legally Wedded Wife or Narrator in USA (Married by Civil Registered Marriage)
2. Veena - Yet another wife in India and Young widow (Married by Hindu Religious rites)
3. Balaji aka Krishna -The Bigamous Husband in USA (The Charming Con-Artist)
4. Roshan - Veena's Fatherless orphan from previous marriage with Madan
5. Madan -First husband of Veena, who died an unnatural death with unfinished business
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Date of Writing: 16 May 2010
Date of Editing: 16 May 2010
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Shattering Dreams of Veena

Desperate Veena who is dreaming to start her married life in US, lost her emotional balance when Dr. Balalji aka Krishna told her that he will dump her again if she doesn't support him in denying this marriage. Desperate Veena, who was dumped for last 6 years and started seeing rays of hopes again with Krishna's charming recent communication after Meera filing for Bigamy, could not handle Krishna's threat of dumping again. Veena's family reported that she has serious emotional unbalance with Krishna's torture for last so many years and continuing again recently, current state is becoming extreme for her and Veena may commit suicide with Krishna's torture and threat of dumping her again.
It is obvious that Krishna is forcing Veena crookedly to deny this marriage so that Krishan can be a free bird legally to deceive more women. Forceful denial of Veena's marriage gives Krishna green signal forever to cheat more woman.


Cheated widow Veena, wife of Krishna, is hiding from the society. Her brothers and sisters got married and started their own family life. Her 17 year son has started his life independently with the help of grandparent support. Veena is alone and desperate for home who needs financial support for her life. She is currently homeless and living a parasitic life. Selfish criminal Krishna knows how to exploit Veena but failed to provide her basics for survival. With current condition of Veena, being ignored wife of Krishna for so many years leading her to frustrations. If anything goes wrong with her, Will Krishna take full responsibility of his suppressed marriage and tortured life of Veena ?
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Voice of Women is pleased to present the BIOGRAPHY OF A WIFE DECEIVED INTO MARRIAGE BY HER 'HUSBAND' AFTER CONCEALING AN EXISTING MARRIAGE.

Inspired by the success of the 'Chronicles of a Battered Abused Discriminated and Disadvantaged Fatherless Girl-child'----A WIFE has come forward with her "Testimony of a Legally wedded wife to a man who has concealed an existing marriage".
This TESTIMONY brings to LIGHT the Strenuous circumstances of LEGALLY WEDDED EDUCATED WOMEN, who are facing deception from 'CHARMING MEN'.

The core issue of the Biography is to look for Solutions for "Deception and Concealment of existing marriages by MEN" in our Homes, Community, Society and the Corporate World. The solutions include Counseling, Healing, Family Forums and other Alternative Counseling Forums.
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Disclaimer: The Story is told in the first person narrative by the "Legally Wedded Wife".
For reasons of confidentiality, please don't assume the identity of the 'other characters in the story- namely the Bigamous husband'. The entire story has been placed in custody of certain well-wishers. Names and identities of characters have been masked and changed to protect their identities. Let us call the name of the LEGALLY WEDDED WIFE as 'Meera'.

Images used are only representative of the story.

Strong Legal action will be taken in Bangalore jurisdiction, against all those who claim to resemble or know the identity of any characters mentioned in this Biography.

Biography of a Legally Wedded Wife in a Bigamous relationship by Deception.Ch 9. Balaji has Strong Opposition Investigations re: Bigamous marriage

Biography of a Legally Wedded Wife in a Bigamous relationship by Deception.
Chapter 9. Balaji has Strong Opposition on Investigations about Bigamous marriage in India

Main Characters:
1. Meera -The Legally Wedded Wife or Narrator in USA (Married by Civil Registered Marriage)
2. Veena - Yet another wife in India and Young widow (Married by Hindu Religious rites)
3. Balaji aka Krishna -The Bigamous Husband in USA (The Charming Con-Artist)
4. Roshan - Veena's Fatherless orphan from previous marriage with Madan

5. Madan -First husband of Veena, who died an unnatural death with unfinished business
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Date of writing: 11 May 2010
Date of Editing: 11 May 2010
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Strong Opposition on Investigations in India

Dr Balaji aka Krishna appealed US court Judge, "Prays to stop investigations in Chennai high court in India order requested by Meera"

Krishna continues his constant denial of marriage with Veena in US court. Meera requested US court to perform investigations in India on Krishna's marriage. Krishna appealed US court to stop these investigations in India. Reasons mentioned are

# investigations are improper, misleading, not required, unnecessary, unwarranted, not relevant, no base for investigations in India, confusing, no evidences available etc. etc........

Every individual has a right to investigate the crimes at any part of the globe. Judge approved investigations order in Chennai high court in India.

"Lies are his Life" International criminal Krishna LIED in US high court frequently. Now forcing Veena to LIE... then all family members and friends who attended wedding to LIE in Chennai court now. Con artist Krishna's karishma teaching everyone to LIE. Let's see how many people need to lie in Chennai high court.

On other front, Krishna's residential house is on foreclosure. Water got disconnected. Krishna was ordered by US court to evict the house in May. "Another marriage for mortgage and utilities," dream of Dr. Balaji collapsed.
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Voice of Women is pleased to present the BIOGRAPHY OF A WIFE DECEIVED INTO MARRIAGE BY HER 'HUSBAND' AFTER CONCEALING AN EXISTING MARRIAGE.

Inspired by the success of the 'Chronicles of a Battered Abused Discriminated and Disadvantaged Fatherless Girl-child'----A WIFE has come forward with her "Testimony of a Legally wedded wife to a man who has concealed an existing marriage".
This TESTIMONY brings to LIGHT the Strenuous circumstances of LEGALLY WEDDED EDUCATED WOMEN, who are facing deception from 'CHARMING MEN'.

The core issue of the Biography is to look for Solutions for "Deception and Concealment of existing marriages by MEN" in our Homes, Community, Society and the Corporate World. The solutions include Counseling, Healing, Family Forums and other Alternative Counseling Forums.
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Disclaimer: The Story is told in the first person narrative by the "Legally Wedded Wife".
For reasons of confidentiality, please don't assume the identity of the 'other characters in the story- namely the Bigamous husband'. The entire story has been placed in custody of certain well-wishers. Names and identities of characters have been masked and changed to protect their identities. Let us call the name of the LEGALLY WEDDED WIFE as 'Meera'.

Images used are only representative of the story.

Strong Legal action will be taken in Bangalore jurisdiction, against all those who claim to resemble or know the identity of any characters mentioned in this Biography.

Saturday, 1 May 2010

Except for adultery (sexual relationship with married persons), consensual sex no criminal offence, says Supreme Court of India

Except for adultery (sexual relationship with married persons), consensual sex no criminal offence, says Supreme Court of India
Apr 30, 2010

NEW DELHI: Consensual heterosexual relation between adults, including pre-marital sex, is no offence except in cases where the partners are liable to be charged for "adultery", ruled the Supreme Court.


It said the courts attach a lot of importance to personal autonomy and a person indulging in an immoral act need not necessarily be a culprit in the eyes of law. "Morality and criminality are non co-extensive," said a Bench comprising Chief Justice K G Balakrishnan and Justices Deepak Verma and B S Chauhan on Wednesday.

The SC said in the present social milieu, some view pre-marital sex as an attack on the centrality of marriage while a significant number see nothing wrong in it. This conflict of opinion on morality did not make pre-marital sex an offence, it ruled.

"Notions of social morality are inherently subjective and criminal law cannot be used as a means to unduly interfere with the domain of personal autonomy," it said.

This clear finding and the judicial logic supporting it got substantial space in the apex court's judgment on Wednesday quashing 23 complaint cases against South Indian actress Khushboo, who was harassed through litigation for her remarks on prevalence of pre-marital sex in cities.

Justice Chauhan, writing the 41-page judgment for the Bench, said, "While it is true that the mainstream view in our society is that sexual contact should take place only between marital partners, there is no statutory offence that takes place when adults willingly engage in sexual relations outside the marital setting, with the exception of `adultery' as defined under Section 497 of the Indian Penal Code."

Section 497 provides, "Whoever has sexual intercourse with a person who is and whom he knows or has reason to believe to be the wife of another man, without the consent or connivance of that man, such sexual intercourse not amounting to the offence of rape, is guilty of the offence of adultery, and shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to five years, or with fine, or with both. In such case, the wife shall be punishable as an abettor."

The Bench also did not understand the uproar over its comments on pre-marital sex and live-in relationships saying the apex court had in 2006 held that a live-in relationship between two consenting adults of opposite sex did not amount to any offence with the obvious exception of adultery.

It said there was an urgent need for reactionary forces to tolerate unpopular opinions expressed on sensitive issues by writers, authors and other persons and not hound them by instituting complaint cases against them.

"It is not the task of criminal law to punish individuals merely for expressing unpopular views. The threshold for placing reasonable restrictions on the freedom of speech and expression is indeed very high and there should be a presumption in favour of the accused in such cases," the Bench said.

It said Khushboo's remarks did provoke a controversy since the acceptance of pre-marital sex and live-in relationships was viewed by some as an attack on the centrality of marriage.

"While there can be no doubt that in India, marriage is an important social institution, we must also keep our minds open to the fact that there are certain individuals or groups who do not hold the same view. To be sure, there are some indigenous groups within our country wherein sexual relations outside marital setting are accepted as a normal occurrence," the SC said.